Hope-ship

I have often times chatted and written about relationships.  No wonder why nor should it be a surprise as relationship are what I've found to be an integral part of being more than just a simple human. And when I think of the variety of relationships that exist, I'm truly mystified as there are multiple levels and combinations ranging from relationships between friends, lovers, co-workers, colleagues, and more.

In recent conversation the topic of hope within these relationships emerged. Through the scope of success, employers hope that their staff can comply with their demands  and requests; through the scope of failure perhaps these same employers hope their weakest link will resign or self-elect for an early departure.  Employers really "think" these are likely outcomes.

In regards to friends, some friendships appear less balanced as one side is more needy or draining vs stable and giving.  It appears that over time, this relationship becomes filled with hopes too.  Often times one friend hoping that things will get better, ultimately hoping this friendship can and will soon appear more comfortable- like it used to be.  These individuals really "think" this is possible.

Perhaps something similar is the case with romantic relationships as well; one partner feeling drained as the other goes unaware. Or perhaps one partner feeling overwhelmed while the other has no idea. And similar to the hopes revolving around friendship; someone hoping there is more depth between the duo, with additional fleeting thoughts with hope at its center.

The unfortunate part is that while these hopes are floating around- the relationship itself is deteriorating.  The relationship is becoming more and more lost at bay, getting closer and closer to reaching a breaking point, or being overfilled with so many burdens it simply capsized. 

So instead of hope in these relationships...I suggest communication.  Communicate and work towards solutions; because all relationships are important.  No more walking on eggshells or treading lighting; no more whispers to others who aren't effected but bring you comfort as you continue to hope.  It's sure to be difficult, but all things worth having weren't easy to obtain; so talk about the issues and be about the solutions.  After all- hope floats but not without a little extra😊