I went on a date. Not just any date; but a date that lingers in your mind and heart for awhile. I met up with a man and we talked a bit in a store. We then walked right next door and ate at a "hole-in-the-wall" wing spot. He opened the door and ordered my meal then like a true gentleman paid without questions. He pulled out my chair without hesitation and kept me engaged over our meal.
We sat and talked for hours more; watching the evening change to nightfall. He said "oh, how times flies"and I agreed. We talked about life and goals and dreams and growth. We talked about love and sadness and plans for our future- together and individual. We discussed finances and news and pop culture.
He asked that I text when I get home; which I did. To which he responded- "we need a follow up date soon". This no doubt, made me smile as I prepared for bed and reflected on my day.
It was then that began to think. I thought: This guy- he loves me. This guy- treats me like a queen. This is truly what love feels like- whole hearted and unconditional; never-ending, flawed and all. This is what I am looking for and I refused to settl for less.
This man, this date, this gentleman- he is my dad.
I recently realized how truly blessed I am to have had a father growing up. One that I knew, saw, interacted with and built memories. He is such a great man. He is my protector, my confidant, my advisor- and so much more. He was and still is an active parent and only in adult life have we developed a true friendship.
For those of you who can- invite your dad or father figure on a date. It's clear that the art of dating has been diminished as well as chivalry, so it was nice to have such a great helping of tender, love, and care.
When's the last time you told your dad he was appreciated? Or thanked him for being around? After-all, it's been said that we marry a version of our father, so get to know your future Prince Charming. I challenge you to give it try- I have no doubt he will sweep you off your feet.
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