Sunday Well Spent

We all know that there are seven days in a week and even more clear that everyone's schedule can differ and vary based on career and life- be it day to day and week to week.

In the midst of such an ever changing day to day, week, and life I have found a plan that works! It's how I ensure my Sundays are truly well spent. My Sundays are loosely structured but it makes my week WAY less stressful.

Sunday morning my goal is church then errands; usually followed by food prep and  cooking. Sunday is also usually my hair day; not usually washing it but typically re-styling for the week.  I often have other tasks like household chores such as laundry, cleaning the bathroom, or whatever else is needed or overdue.

My Sunday is perpetuated by this "to-do" list. And no matter how long this "to-do" list, I also have a quitting time...that's right I close shop at a pre-determined time; most often between 5 and 6pm. This forces me to be effective with my time all day and weed-out the random acts of mis-managed time from the necessities of the day and projected work week.  

Having a quitting time also allows for me to enjoy my Sunday, even if it's just for the evening until "Smonday" arrives. It allows time to relax and rest before gearing up for a week of potential mayhem! 

Most times I just watch television or read; maybe talk to some friends. Other times I take a bath or enjoy hot tea with a baked snacked; maybe watch a movie?! To be honest there are endless choices, but the key is all these choices are intentionally made available. I do not view this time or chosen activity as a bonus or random free time- it's intentional and I have found it so necessary! 

I challenge you to try it! And for you it might not be Sunday. But take a day and decide when you get up how effective you want to be and from what time you are giving yourself; when quitting time comes...QUIT! See how you feel next day and the following few days. I'm sure this won't work for everyone but it might just work for you.  

Spring Forward

It's interesting- the season Spring; it's totally based upon change. Change in time as we spring forward and have longer days filled with more sunlight. A change in landscape as flowers bloom and allergies take over. Change is implied by references to spring cleaning as well! These changes bring people (and animals) out of hibernation.

Do you notice these changes? Have you pressed pause on life lately to take in a single moment? How you reflected on changes within yourself and those around you; or even just taken a beat to admire the beauty around you.

Are you making changes for yourself? For those of you who made new goals for the new year, what's the status- are you on target, behind, or ahead? For those who didn't make goals but are "gonna"- are you aware a full quarter of the year has almost passed you by; luckily for you, there is still time but be clear as time waits for no-one.

For those who have been throw into change unwillingly and without preparation; stay strong, change is hard but truly necessary. No matter what the circumstance changes only come for a season. Change promotes growth and strength; for once you've grown into your change it becomes your new normal (what a relief - right).

Sooooo- I challenge you to seize the day and reflect for a better you! I challenge myself to do the same. #carpédiem

Brunch: Bottomless Mimosas & Barbecue

Who would have thought about this combination: mimosas and barbecue!  I'm totally clueless on where the idea originated but know I caught a promo on social media which put it on my to-do list.

Sweet Auburn BBQ introduced me to this dynamic duo- and it was pretty good. I must admit; the brunch buffet felt lacking although I couldn't figure out what was missing. The spread itself was robust and offered an array of different options; multiple meats, several carbs, and a handful of healthy options; some breakfast based choices, while others illustrated the makings of a true lunch. Upon second thought; I believe it was the flavor that was missing- across the board I needed more sauce, more tang, more flavor.  I would visit again, but would likely opt for an entree or surely make a menu based selection for dinning. 

As for the mimosas, servers were prompt with pouring the first round at 1230! That was surely a plus; and have no doubt they kept them coming. I'm assuming because I was 1 of a party of 2, we were not offered a pitcher to self serve for our table. We were not rushed from our table and  therefore were able to enjoy the Virginia Highland setting while catching up and sipping away.  As the sitting and sipping continued, there was a note-able shift in the strength of the mimosas as the beverage appeared lighter and lighter with each refill- no complaints with that over here.

Parking, which must be addressed because Atlanta can be ridiculous for no apparent reason.  With Sweet Auburn BBQ, parking was plentiful as there was lots of street parking which was free but came with the cost of a wall through the neighborhood. Didn't bother me any. But if you're looking for a parking- lot; there's one but it's small which means often full and easily overlooked.

So in sum: loved the concept! Loved the service! Loved the area! Would go again but surely skip the buffet. But of course, don't let my tasties steer you wrong; try it yourself and give me a shout 😝

Date Night

I went on a date. Not just any date; but a date that lingers in your mind and heart for awhile.  I met up with a man and we talked a bit in a store. We then walked right next door and ate at a "hole-in-the-wall" wing spot. He opened the door and ordered my meal then like a true gentleman paid without questions. He pulled out my chair without hesitation and kept me engaged over our meal.

We sat and talked for hours more; watching the evening change to nightfall. He said "oh, how times flies"and I agreed. We talked about life and goals and dreams and growth.  We talked about love and sadness and plans for our future- together and individual. We discussed finances and news and pop culture. 

He asked that I text when I get home; which I did. To which he responded- "we need a follow up date soon". This no doubt, made me smile as I prepared for bed and reflected on my day.

It was then that began to think. I thought: This guy- he loves me. This guy- treats me like a queen. This is truly what love feels like- whole hearted and unconditional; never-ending, flawed and all.  This is what I am looking for and I refused to settl for less. 

This man, this date, this gentleman- he  is my dad.

I recently realized how truly blessed I am to have had a father growing up. One that I knew, saw, interacted with and built memories. He is such a great man. He is my protector, my confidant, my advisor- and so much more.  He was and still is an active parent and only in adult life have we developed a true friendship. 

For those of you who can- invite your dad or father figure on a date. It's clear that the art of dating has been diminished as well as chivalry, so it was nice to have such a great helping of tender, love, and care.  

When's the last time you told your dad he was appreciated? Or thanked him for being around? After-all, it's been said that we marry a version of our father, so get to know your future Prince Charming.  I challenge you to give it try- I have no doubt he will sweep you off your feet.